“How can I get him to stop doing that hurtful thing?”
"I don't want to be controlling, but I hate it when he/she ..."
“How can I get her to stop talking to me like that?”
“Is it unreasonable to ask for what I want?”
“Is it selfish to put my needs first?”
A Thriving Life & Relationship Coach, Author of the viral blog “Choose Her Every Day (or Leave Her)”
Every … single … damn ... day … I get messages from people all over the world asking me questions like the ones above.
What they don't realize is their frustration (resentment, confusion, hurt, anger, etc.) is often the simple consequence of lacking clear boundaries in their relationship.
Indeed, this is how you can even create a tragic mess with the “love of your life!"
Boundaries create SAFETY.
When you don’t feel safe with someone – not just physically, but emotionally and mentally safe, too – you naturally seek to protect yourself from them.
Which means you will either withdraw ... or attack.
Clearly, both withdraw and attack destroy intimacy.
Practicing and honoring boundaries in your relationship make withdraw and attack completely unnecessary.
Otherwise, without boundaries ... you can kiss intimacy goodbye!
``Nothing is sustainable without boundaries.``
With this program, you will learn ...
How a great relationship turns bad without clear boundaries.
The difference between “Requests” & “Requirements” (and how to communicate them!)
The one non-negotiable boundary you need when trying to save a relationship.
How to effectively talk about sexual boundaries with your partner (including when you're not getting enough!)
The 3 Core Fears that prevent you from creating & honoring boundaries
How men and women can experience boundaries differently, and how to work with those differences powerfully.
Why it’s actually more selfish to NOT have boundaries.
Actual language you can use to communicate boundaries without disempowering your partner.
Have you experienced any of these in a relationship ...
Your thoughts and opinions are disrespected?
Your emotions & feelings aren't welcomed?
Your time isn't valued?
Your “no” isn't consistently honored?
Not being treated or spoken to with care and respect?
Not fully trusting your partner to always tell the truth?
Persistent criticism or judgment?
Being rejected or dismissed when you don’t give the other what they want (or even when you do)?
If you can answer ``YES`` to even one ... YOU NEED BETTER BOUNDARIES!
PROGRAM VALUE ... $97
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Having your boundaries violated might even be “normal” for you!
A few signs you need better boundary skills
You experience persistent resentment.
You feel chronically exhausted, fatigued or discouraged by the relationship’s challenges.
You feel overwhelmed with responsibility for the relationship’s success.
You feel overwhelmed with responsibility for your partner’s happiness or satisfaction.
Your partner routinely breaks their word or promises to you.
You often feel unappreciated or disrespected.
Your partner never seems to have time or interest to talk about a subject that bothers you (e.g., porn use, long work hours, sexual dissatisfaction, etc.)
You’re afraid sometimes to say “NO” when your partner asks for something you don’t want to do or give.
You often feel let down or disappointed.
You aren’t honest about your feelings or thoughts because you’re afraid they’ll get angry or leave.
You pretend everything is ok even when it isn’t.
You argue with your partner even when they’re not there (e.g., in your own head, in the car when you’re alone, after you hang up the phone, etc.).
INCLUDED IN THIS PROGRAM
BREAKTHROUGH AUDIO MODULE
BOUNDARY CLARIFYING EXERCISES
BONUS: Stick to the Scripts!
Immediately, when you download this program, you'll receive conversation scripts – EXACT WORDS you can start using that will help you communicate your boundaries with respect, with love – to set you and your partner up for success together.
You'll know EXACTLY what to SAY when …
You’re in a new relationship and need to communicate an important boundary.
Your partner violates a boundary for the first time (which is inevitable).
You’re sexually frustrated.
You feel emotionally disconnected from your partner.
You want your partner to “show up” more.
Your partner isn’t taking actions to honor your boundaries.
You realize your partner can’t (or won’t) honor a critical boundary.
START CREATING BOUNDARIES WITH THESE SCRIPTS
Doesn’t it make sense that truly great sex can only happen in a space of mutual trust and emotional safety? … there's a script to help you create that.
Have you asked your partner to “show up” more, and then watched them run away? … there's a script to help you avoid that.
Does your partner not know what “emotional connection” means? … there’s a script to help you get around that.
Can your partner read your mind? … If not, these scripts make sure they don’t have to.
These simple, practical scripts allow you to FRAME boundary conversations so you communicate clearly, with love AND respect, to help minimize your partner’s resistance and make sure you’re heard.
Aren't you ready to have a love you're truly grateful for?
“I just finished listening to your new Boundaries program and loved it … I especially appreciate the scripts!”
“Thank you for bringing to light the immense boundary issues I have. You have enlightened and inspired me to really work on them in a new love relationship, along with all other relationships in my life. BIG BREAKTHROUGH. BIG THANKS!”
``Powerful, direct, digestible, thought provoking and profound. You literally said everything there is to say about boundaries.``
PROGRAM VALUE ... $97
Get it now for only $27
NO-RISK, MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE
If you go through the entire program within 7 days and you do NOT feel it serves you in any way or gives you any useful clarity on love and intimacy – I’ll give you your money back. Just email firstname.lastname@example.org and tell us you listened to all the modules and did the exercises and it just didn't serve you. We'll issue your refund, no further questions asked.